They sit in the living room, a heavy dose of awkwardness permeates the atmosphere.
David: How are you settling into the apartment?
Rose: Fine. It's peaceful at least.
David: I noticed the rent for the apartment is now coming out of our joint account.
Rose: The sooner we sell this place, I can find something of my own.
David: Right. I must get on to that.
Rose: You've not done anything about it yet?
David: No. He pauses. It's not easy to sell our family home, the one we raised our family in. All the memories, the trials, the ups and downs are all tied up here. But I will get on to it.
Rose: You were often away on business while I was busy raising the kids. We started growing apart and the closeness between us suffered. Let's face it, we stuck together for the sake of the kids. Well, I know that's what I did. I started to feel I was married to a man I no longer enjoyed being with.
David: Ouch. I didn't even realise that was how you felt, I was so tied up with work. When we first got married, we went out for restaurant meals, shared our emotional feelings and confided in each other. Then the kids came and all of that stopped. It shouldn't have, but my work and your caring for the family seemed to take all our energy. With time, we changed but we didn't adapt with the change. We must have become a marriage of two people becoming less familiar with each other.
Rose: Well, you've always been an optimist, David. Even now, you're trying to rationalise our failures.
David: It's not rationalising. It's reflecting. I've had a lot of time to think since you left. This house is an important part of who we were. I don't want to sell it just to be free of you; I want to understand why we stopped loving each other before we officially call it quits.
Rose cynically: Do you really think we can undo years of us neglecting our marriage?
David: I don't know. I miss you, Rose. Not the version of you that lives in that apartment, but the version of you that used to happy and was carefree.
Rose's eyes well up, and she quickly blinks the tears away, turning her head further toward the window.
Rose: You always did know exactly what to say to make me feel guilty for leaving. It’s not that simple. We can’t just go back to being we were because we're not that young couple anymore.
David: I'm not asking to go back. We can't. Maybe we don't need to sell the house yet. Maybe we just... try to inhabit it together for a while, without the pressure of being parents. Just two people who want to reinvent their relationship.
Rose: You're impossible. Fine. I won't push the sale of the house this week. But that doesn't mean I'm moving back in. I need my own space, for now at least. The personal freedom, finding myself again after decades of running a home and family.
David: I get it and you don't need to feel pressured. How about I make a drink and then we both retreat to regroup and consider what we have discussed?
Rose: Thanks for the offer, but I'll head off.
David is hopeful: Can we meet up soon to discuss how we need to move forward.
Rose with a positive tone: A good idea. My place next week, same time?
David: Sure.
Rose departs, more upset inside than she showed outwardly, memories of happier times flooding back. David watches her car disappear down the road. He walks back into the lounge and slumps in a chair, tears running down his face. He had looked forward to a happy retirement with Rose, but with retirement approaching, his vision of the future is now blurred.
David: What's up Jeremy?
Jeremy: I don't know what to say, Dave.
David looks quizically at Jeremy: About what?
Jeremy: I just came here to support you, but I guess you will find out sooner or later. I was out with my wife Melisa at a restaurant and we saw Rose with a man. We didn't recognise him but ...how do I put this? The body language between them was telling.
David slumps back: Oh no.
Jeremy: Apparently it's not uncommon in the situation you're both in. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news.
David: No, I appreciate hearing it from you rather than other sources.
David returns home with a mixture of anger and guilt. Angry at Rose but feeling guilty that he allowed this sad state of affairs to get to this point. He wonders how to broach the subject at their next meeting together.
The time arrives and David nervously goes around to Rose's apartment. They sit in her lounge.
Rose: So, any thoughts you want to share?
David looks down but says nothing.
Rose: Something the matter?
David looks up: Are you seeing someone?
Rose's eyes widen in surprise: What business is that of yours?
David with his palms raised: Apart from us still being married, nothing at all.
Rose composes herself: We need to be open and frank, so yes, I have been.
David: Why, why so soon?
Rose needs to justify her behaviour: The freedom I felt when I moved out, the idea of some romantic excitement, a feeling of being wanted....then someone shows interest in me.
David remains calm: I get that. I've felt the same way but resisted the urge to act out my feelings. Despite that understanding, it still hurts, like a dagger to the heart.
Rose: I've stopped seeing him. It didn't last long as it didn't work out. Once past the flush of excitement, I realised he wasn't my type. I feel stupid now.
David: So where does that put our trying to achieve a reconciliation?
Rose: I don't know. You have every right to walk out and ring a real estate agent.
David: I need time to think.
He gets up and leaves, barely acknowledging Rose as he departs. Not in anger, but with a confusion of thoughts.
Cynthia: Our family was a safe haven, an anchor. We may have all left home, but we still need that security of family unity.
Jane: When there was conflict between us as children, you made sure we sorted it out. You insisted we made up and that we got along afterward. Why can't you do that now?
Matt stands by the fire place, saying nothing but feeling the sadness. Rose sees the sadness in her children, and it cuts deep.
David: You are right and we will do our best to sort things out.
The children depart, and just the parents are left.
Jane: What are we to do? I can't bear to see our children so upset with our separation.
David: I've been thinking about it. There are some things we could try.
Rose: Like what?
David: Our focus was in raising our children, but that is over. It now means we need to recreate our roles. Not as parents but as two people sharing our lives together. We need to find things we can do as a couple. We have good memories with our children. We need to find ways to create new memories. Our marriage need not be over if we view the next stage of our life as a new chapter, to be looked forward to.
Rose: Wow, you have put some thought into it. I'm willing to try and get this right.
David: Nothing will be an easy fix. It will take time and effort to change our perspective on what our new roles should be.
Rose: And we mustn't forget to value the power of kind deeds and words.
David: Agreed. Shall we start again? I'd be happy for you to move back home.
Rose: I want to keep the apartment for now and see how we handle things. I think some distance will be helpful as we implement some of the ideas you raised. I don't want to move back too soon if it doesn't work as we hope.
David: You are right. We have to accept that there is no easy fix, just good communication, hard work and forgiveness for when we fail.
The couple set off on their new journey. Will they succeed? They will determine that. One thing is for certain, it's better to try save a marriage than give up without much of a fight.

